Originally Sourced From https://www.thelawofattraction.com/love-languages/
The way we express love and receive it differs from person to person, because of a concept known as love languages.
Sometimes, in spite of our best intentions, we struggle to make our partners feel loved. Gestures that would touch us fall flat with them, and we end up feeling unappreciated while they feel misunderstood.
Meanwhile, the reverse also occurs – you might find yourself telling your partner that you don't feel cared for, and they might reveal that they've been trying really hard to show their love.
The two of you have simply been talking at cross purposes.